「一段親密關係中有情緒勒索的要素存在,並不代表這段關係已經被判定為失敗,而是表示我們需要更誠實地面對,改正這種造成自身痛苦的行為模式,讓所有的親密關係都能回歸到更穩固的基礎上。」--蘇珊‧佛沃 情緒勒索是什麼?「我限你一分鐘之內出現在我眼前,不然我們就分手。」 「這點忙也不願意幫,是不是朋友阿。」 「我養你到這麼大,當然要聽我的。」 這些對話熟悉嗎?你總是在關係裡面犧牲到連自己都不見了嗎?為什麼明知道這樣很痛苦,卻又一直重導覆轍無法脫離?不了解情緒勒索時,容易無意識地陷入其中,任其擺佈自己的情緒與思想,無法作出理性的思考與判斷。 霧裡FOG內容體驗為主場景「迷霧之塔」與三個情境房間,分別為「迷惘」、「操控」、「壓抑」,透過將情緒勒索情境具象化,希望藉由此作品讓更多人了解到情緒勒索的影響力。
“There’s emotional blackmail in close relationship doesn’t mean it’s doom. It simply means that we need to honestly acknowledge and correct the behavior that’s causing us pain, Putting these relationships back on a more solid foundation.” --Susan Forward ‘’You must be there for me in one minute, otherwise we will break out.’’ “Do me a little favor, or we won’t be friend.’’ “I bring you up. You must listen to me.” Do these conversations familiar? Do you always sacrifice in relationship even you couldn’t see it? Why we know that we are in pain, but we still can’t break off relations? We would fall into a depression unconsciously without knowing emotional blackmail which control our emotions and thoughts and could not think and judge more rationally. “霧裡FOG” can experience the scene “the fog of tower” and three situation room which is representative of “lost”, “control” and “repress” respectively. We would like to let more people know about the effect of emotional blackmail by this project.
黃郁鈞 老師
翁鉅奇 老師
曾妤棻
TZENG,YU-FEN
張 敬
CHANG CHING
許玟羿
HSU,WEN-YI
林易昀
LIN,I-YUN
劉舒芸
LIU,SHU-YUN